PARIS · SAN FRANCISCO · FOUNDED 2026

Your in-the-know friend who is looking out for you.

No one should ever feel forgotten or left out. And everyone should be able to easefully find what they most want to experience in their city. That is Tous. And once you're there, you should know how to actually connect, not perform, not network, just meet someone and mean it.

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Paris and San Francisco. Free to join during founding.

WHY TOUS EXISTS

The signal was missing.

Two friends. Both free Saturday night. Both wanting the same experience. Neither knows the other is free. Neither goes.

The information existed. The desire existed. The friendship existed.

What was missing was the signal. Tous creates that signal.

There is also the gap between the life you say you want and the life you are actually living.

The experiences you mean to get to. The rooms you keep almost walking into. The version of your week that includes something worth remembering.

Tous solves both. It closes the gap between you and the people you want to be in a room with. And it closes the gap between the life you are living and the one you actually came here for.

THREE THINGS NO ONE ELSE DOES TOGETHER

Not an event app. A belonging infrastructure.

Your own curation

Every week, a digest of experiences matched to your specific taste. Not a list of everything happening. The things worth your time, including the underground and niche events most people never hear about.

The social signal

Seeing who among your people are going is where Tous is headed. We are building it now. Until then, you are an us, all by yourself. Go toward what calls you, with your people or without waiting for them. Tous gets you to the door. Your own yes carries you through it.

The connector game

Rewarding generosity is where Tous is headed. When you bring someone into an experience they love, that should be noticed and celebrated. Not followers. Not likes. Real moments of connection. We are building the way to recognize that properly.

IS THIS YOU

If even half of this feels like home, keep reading. You belong here.

You are culturally curious and experience hungry. You are not looking for just any event. You are looking for the right room, the right night, the right people. You have been to enough wrong ones to know the difference.

You live in Paris or the Bay Area, or both. You move between cities and sometimes feel like you are always the last to know. You have missed things you would have loved, because no one thought to tell you.

You want a life that feels alive. You are already looking for that. Tous just makes sure you find it.

You probably go to experiences alone sometimes and wish you didn't have to. You have a handful of people in your life whose taste you trust completely. When one of them says you have to go to this, you go.

You are somewhere between 35 and 60, though you have never felt like an age. You care about music, art, movement, conversation, transformation, and community. Not all of them equally. But some combination of them, deeply.

You have probably tried the big platforms. Eventbrite, Luma, Facebook events. And you have found them useful but not personal. Not yours. Not curated for who you actually are.

You might be a coach, a healer, a creative, an entrepreneur, a musician, someone who has built a meaningful career and is now hungry for a life that matches it. Or you might be none of those things and all of them at once.

What you are, underneath all the labels, is someone who knows that the right room at the right moment with the right people changes something. You have felt it. You want more of it.

Tous is for you.

I want in

FOUNDING MEMBERS

On trying to find the right experiences in Paris:

"I have spent so many hours online just looking for things. Putting myself on different newsletters, just to see, will I hit. I do not want to go to just a regular this or that. I want it to be special. More conscious. More depth. None of them finding me."

Michelle G., Paris

"It is built into your DNA. You naturally look around your communities and think: why is the sharing and caring not happening more."

Josh M., Paris

"I really love Tous for the convenience it brings to my life. I don't have to scout endlessly for events, it delivers all events in one place and they are always perfectly tailored to my taste, it really gets me, I feel seen."

Viara I., San Francisco

THE FOUNDER

Before Tous, David spent years in entertainment at Disney and IMAX, then built a second career in high-performance life coaching, training executives in non-verbal communication and public speaking for leading global French media companies.

David spent thirty years as a host. Dinner parties became his stage, the place where a man with the instincts of a performer found his form: cooking, gathering, welcoming strangers into his home until they left feeling like the evening had been made just for them. Tous is what thirty years of hosting taught him, built into something larger than his own table.

David Brower, Founder, Tous

WHAT I WANT YOU TO FEEL

I want you to open your first digest and think, you have seen me. I want you to feel welcome no matter what you love. And I want you to feel safe, because whatever you are curious about stays between us.

The friend that finally listened to you. The friend that is there for you.

"The highest form of love today is connecting people to shared lived experiences."

The screen is the portal. The life is the product.

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Paris and San Francisco. Free during founding. Your first digest arrives within 24 hours of joining.

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No spam. No attention traps. No endless searching and scrolling. Just the experiences worth your time and energy.

The friend that finally listened to you.